I'll Meet You Wherever You Are

Making an informed decision about your next chapter

If you're gathering your resources and trying to figure out whether divorce is the right path, I help you understand what you're actually facing. Divorce isn't just a change of address or relationship status—it's a moment of radical change across four different areas of your life.

• There's the legal change: moving from married to single, with all the tax implications, health insurance considerations, and financial entanglements that come with it. 

• There's the emotional work of untangling a shared life. 

• There's the social navigation—who gets which friends, how you explain this to your community. 

• And there's the practical reality of two households, new routines, and a different daily life.

Before we go any further, I make sure you've tried everything else. Divorce may be the best option, but it should always be the last.

Of course, sometimes divorce is visited upon you—you don't always get the luxury of being the one who decides. Either way, I help you game out both the upsides and the hazards so you can move forward with clarity.

What I provide at this stage:

• Thinking partner: We work through the questions you don't even know to ask yet

• Resource provider: I connect you with my network of child therapists, divorce lawyers, mediators, financial advisors—everyone you need in your pit crew

• Advocate and perspective shifter: Sometimes you need a cheerleader, and a reminder that the story you're telling yourself can be reframed

I’m here to help you map out possibilities you might not see on your own.

Considering divorce? Reach out today [link to contact page]

Staying focused when everything feels chaotic

Maybe you've already started the process, but the legal bills are climbing and you're not getting anywhere. Maybe every conversation with your spouse sends you spiraling. Maybe your lawyer keeps asking for documents you can't find, or decisions you're not ready to make.

This is when I become your air traffic controller—managing multiple heavy payloads, helping you navigate around the detours, keeping you organized and focused.

What you get:

• Someone who's infinitely interested and endlessly engaged (when your friends are burnt out from hearing about it)

• Help staying organized and focused on what actually matters

• Prompts, worksheets, and compassionate guidance to ensure you're asking the right questions and hiring a trusted team to support you

• Reality checks when you're about to make an emotional decision that will cost you later

This is the stage where I become your first call—because when we head problems off early, we save you time, money, and heartache down the line.

In the messy middle? Reach out today [link to contact page]

Life after the papers are signed

Congratulations—you're divorced. Now what?

How do you work out the holidays? Whose house for birthdays? How do you manage when your ex's house is a mansion and yours is a cottage? How do you handle the social invitations that come—and the ones that don't? When will you be ready to get back out there? And, oy, what do you TELL everyone?

This is when we focus on values over distractions. We zero in on the life this separation makes possible so you’re ready to live it to the fullest. 

(This is especially important for parents. Kids are remarkably perceptive—they see right through attempts to be bought by shiny things. Parents who live their values instead become the kinds of people kids want to be like.)

What we work on:

• Logistics: custody schedules, holiday rotations, coordinating households

• Perspective: keeping your eyes on your values when everything feels unfair

• Co-parenting: building a functional partnership with your ex (when possible)

• Identity: figuring out who you are now and what you want next

• The blessings: yes, there are actual blessings in divorce—if you're willing to see them

Tying off your divorce well means you get the full benefit of your second chance. 

Ready for your second bite? Reach out today [link to contact page]